As I reflect on my experience during the talk, I believe that I was evaluating myself and seeing if I am qualified to be ready, since I do planning on getting married one day. I may not be sure as to why I will get married in the future, but I do know that it will be because of love. And I am not an idiot to just jump into these things without planning; I know that I will think about it very well before popping the question to my future wife. If I think about it really well, I believe that I can actually get married at this time. I may not be as mature as the others and I may have a short temper but I already follow the things that the speaker has said. As he said, to have a happy marriage you must have good communication with your partner. If I compare my married life with how I conduct my relationship with my girlfriend, I believe I have good communications skills but I have to improve on some parts. I noticed that I do make time and take time to communicate with my girlfriend as I always hang out with her after classes and talk with her about stuff. I always do it because I want to be with her and hang out with her and if we do have problems we could talk about it properly without any distractions. But I do have to work on the way we handle our problems at the start, I mean I do. It is because when I get annoyed I would ignore her and make ‘tampo’ until the end of the day, which isn’t something that I should do. I was also struck when he talked about the part of appreciating what your partner does for you. Since at that time I believed that she isn’t appreciating me enough for all the things I do for her and that I should talk to her after this, which I did and it turned out better than I thought. Anyway, back to topic, as I think about the whole session and what he has thought me. Even though I believe that I may be ready to be wed, I still have to be mature enough to handle the responsibilities like a good husband and father should. It will take a long time before I will get married but I hope that once I take my second and final pre-cana seminar, that I, along with my partner, exemplifies everything that one should have in a loving and fruitful marriage. I also do hope that I will be a great father and husband. And as the speaker told us in his presentation “love each other as Christ Jesus loved you, take care of each other and grow in the love of Jesus Christ.” And I promise I will.
(I created two reflections for the pre-cana so please endure reading them for I worked hard on them both :)) )
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| A wedding I would like to have :) |
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| My Girlfriend (No plans on marrying her btw :)) ) |
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